What’s your plan tonight?

While I was packing to leave the office, a coworker walked by on her way out and asked me, “What’s your plan tonight?”

I was stunned. This kind of questions usually caught me at my least prepared moment. It’s nothing bad. It’s just that I don’t have a good answer for it.

“I’m going to have a good sleep and come to work tomorrow,” I said.

She was speechless and looked at me as if she’s wondering how on earth would I say things like that. After a second or two of awkward silence, she uttered, “Yeah, I’ll have a good sleep tonight as well.”

I smiled back to her and immediately thought I shouldn’t have said things like that because it’s not interesting.

What else could I say? Would you be interested in listening to me saying, “Yeah, I’m going to read Hermann Hesse’s Demian tonight. I have finished almost half of it, and I’ve been enjoying his work.” Such chitchats do not require serious answers, and yet I’m still looking for a good answer that’s appropriate and timeless.

But I really want to have a good sleep tonight in addition to reading Hesse’s work.

4 Comments »

  1. Good night Cindy!

    Comment by — Jan 6, 2009 @ 1:26 am

  2. I did have a good sleep last night. :)

    Comment by idnyc — Jan 6, 2009 @ 9:59 pm

  3. “i don’t know yet…what’s ur plan for tonight” ?

    不管怎麼樣在最快的速度把話題再丟回去給發問的那個人
    通常會問這種問題的人都是他晚上有節目想要跟別人說但是又不想要主動先講, 所以才會先丟水球給你然後希望你會問他他問你的問題

    Comment by llor — Jan 7, 2009 @ 6:32 pm

  4. 真是高招!!! 要不要開班授課 human conversation psychology 101?

    Comment by idnyc — Jan 7, 2009 @ 7:28 pm

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